In school I had a separate subject of Moral Science where my class
teacher and sometimes
Principal
used to give a short lecture on Good Habits, Ideal Living etc.
I think from school I got habit of observing people and finding the Moral
Principles they follow. As per my observation there are four qualities which
are rare in human beings.
Only exceptional men and women carry them-
Only exceptional men and women carry them-
1. Humble Confidence-
I am purposely using two words here- “humble” and “confidence” because many
times people think that confident person
is always extrovert, bold or
first-in-the-row and humble person is
always shy and introvert. Humble Confidence simply means being a mix of
professional expertise and personal sobriety. These people take their work seriously
but not themselves. At the time of crisis they will appear like a great warrior
else they will remain in their shell and enjoy their own small tasks.
2. Personal Discipline- Discipline itself is a rare trait but one thing
which I never liked about disciplined people is that they unnecessarily want to
make everyone disciplined. They always enforce their rules on others by
presenting themselves as a great example. But, people with personal discipline are different. They themselves lead a
disciplined life but never interfere in others life. They add discipline in
their lives because they want to and not to show others that how great they
are.
3. Respond Boldly- Every
action has a reaction but if we carefully think, plan and analyze our reaction
then it becomes respond. Reaction is spontaneous and immediate but respond is
not immediate we take a pause, quietly examine the situation and then give it. Once
respond is decided successful people convey it boldly, without any fear or
hesitation in their tone. Many people react but only few respond with boldness.
4. Limited Networking-
In 21st century people determine your net-worth by the network you
have. Interestingly, in school we are taught that we should be friend with
everyone but I never met any successful man having a large burden of network.
Never network with people with whom you cannot connect. Nothing in your life will damage you more than your
useless connections. These people connect with few and continue their friendship
with them diligently.
In school no one
teaches us about these four rare qualities. I found these qualities in all
exceptional men and women. I hope people follow them sincerely.
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